a forced kindness deserves no thanks
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used to imply that insincere or forced acts of kindness, done either against one's will or for self-serving purposes, are not deserving of appreciation or gratitude
The origin of the proverb "a forced kindness deserves no thanks" is uncertain, however, it has been attributed to Thomas Fuller, a 17th-century English historian and theologian. This saying reflects the idea that true kindness comes from a willing heart, and when it is given reluctantly or with hidden motives, it loses its value. The proverb serves as a reminder that sincerity is essential for actions to be truly appreciated, and that forced gestures lack the genuine goodwill that should be acknowledged.
- The landlord finally made some repairs in the apartment, but it was only after several complaints and threats of legal action, and a forced kindness deserves no thanks.